You’ve reached that level with your partner, you want to take things to the next step, but part of you is nervous, a little hesitant to make the first move. This is an entirely natural occurrence that effects couples of all ages, and is nothing to be ashamed of. Not everyone knows how to make out with someone like a French kissing maestro. Like with anything, kissing, and making out, takes lots of practice to be good at.

Alright so, enough of the “feel good” nonsense. You want to seduce your partner, you want them to be yours after the first succulent kiss, and you want them to feel like they’re in heaven whenever they kiss you right? Then guys (and girls), I have the perfect guide for you in this post. It’s simple, and to the point, so pay attention ;-)

First of all, you should of course make sure your partner is relaxed, and in the mood for a kiss. This is sort of obvious, however people tend to rush things when they’re nervous. The key here is to take things slowly. Easy does it, as they say.

Once you’ve gazed into your partners eyes for a few moments, and you’ve glanced into theirs, and the mood is more romantic than ever, you’ll want to slowly move in for a kiss, to seal the magical moment. Now here is where many guys and girls get this crucial step wrong. They’ll often rush straight in there, with their tongue dangling out of their mouth, almost slobbering over their partner before their lips have touched. This is of course a big no no.

The secret is to keep your mouth more or less closed whilst moving in for the kiss, and only once your lips touch, should you then slowly start to open your mouth and massage one another’s lips. Just graze your lips against one another, brush them softly, don’t over do it, and keep that tongue in your mouth until after they’ve responded by gently rubbing their lips against yours, returning the affection.

Once the mood becomes more intense, you can gently caress your partner’s tongue with yours. Don’t shove your tongue down their throat, just touch, and caress their tongue ever so slightly, making the kiss soft. There are many nerves at the tip of your tongue, so do your best to stimulate your partner’s nerves to make the kiss enjoyable for them as well as you. Being soft, slow and gentle is the key.

You may even want to embrace your partner, giving them a soft, gentle cuddle, as the kissing intensifies. This will heighten the arousal for you both, and will allow you to make out like two happy rabbits (well, almost).

Another thing to keep in mind is that making out doesn’t revolve around French kissing alone. There are more places that require attention other than the mouth. One such place is the neck. You should stroke your lips against your partner’s neck from time to time. The reason for this is because there are many sexual nerves within the neck, and stimulating them will more likely than not make the session more enjoyable for your partner.

One other tip is to gently blow in your partner’s ear, even whispering in it slightly… telling them how much you love them, or want to kiss them. This will create a psychological response within your partner in addition to a physiological one, and they’ll be even more “in the mood” to make out with you.

Hopefully this guide has given you some useful tips on how to make out with your partner. Learning how to French kiss, and everything that goes along with it, takes time, and practice, but the only way to learn is of course by giving it a go. Put aside your nervousness, and just get in there and do it! The worst that can happen is that your partner will tell you that they’re not ready to be kissed yet, but you’ll never know if you don’t try.


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